So many people are in pursuit of love and happiness and a big chunk of it is dependent on everything happening as expected or desired as in, If everyone else is my way then I’ll be loving and if I’m successful then I’ll be happy. In praise and in success people are happy but failure and criticism turns their smiles upside down. Ask yourself will you call a person who is calm only in a relaxing environment peaceful or a person who is in midst of a disaster and still calm truly peaceful?

We all want to be free and isn’t it the biggest freedom that The world is dynamic. If everything was fixed like many believe it to be then it would have been the worst torture, the spontaneity of life is what makes it so exciting. you can’t expect everything to happen your way, It is a blessing.

A lot of people are living a roller coaster life it’s fun for a while going up-down-up-down although afterwards, it can get nauseating. If you get what you want you are happy if you don’t get what you want you are upset, this roller coaster is what’s making people mad around the world cause no matter how enjoyable it might seem if it goes on indefinitely it can make you puke.

The external won’t happen your way all the time but the internal can happen your way all the time. When your happiness is not dependent on the external it turns into joy, as happiness might fade away cause it’s dependent on the external and everything external will come to an end although joy will be forever.

Find the balance within even though the external may seem chaotic as without a stable foundation within the flowers of love and joy won’t find room to blossom. Once this stability is there, it would not matter if there is a sea of misery outside, you will dance in the centre untouched. Don’t let others decide how you feel and take the decision making power in your hands and live wonderfully no matter what.