Many live their lives feeling that they have been wronged and that life has been unfair to them, people start to seem cruel and joy seems like a myth. Forgiveness is the quality one should bring forth in such situations as neither you nor the rest of the world can be 100% right or wrong.

Forgiveness is the key to the locked door between you and peace in such situations cause the world is dynamic and holding on to grudges will only stunt your growth and leave you feeling stuck. A moment of forgivness is also a moment of transformation for all the parties involved. Resentment and vengeance only hinder you from living in the now and act like chains that bind you to the past which is no more.

Hate is like a poison you drink and expect the other person to die. Forgiveness doesn’t mean forgetfulness in fact, forgiveness is a release from suffering that one inflicts on oneself while blaming someone or something else. If one goes to report a crime or file a complaint its mostly done because one wants revenge or justice for oneself not because one doesn’t want someone else to suffer the same act that one oneself experienced.

Everyone is capable of committing crimes and morality is formed according to what's convenient at the moment so, what is wrong today may be right tomorrow. No one does anything because they think it’s wrong, there is always some validation. The serene forgive to allow letting go of the non-existent.

Judgement of others is ugly and doesn’t just effect the one being judged it also is detrimental for the one judging in terms of one’s maturing. It’s hard for the ego to forgive as it’s whole existence is rooted in misery, the more miserable one is the more fuel is there for the ego and forgiveness is the antidote. Forgiveness is a tough choice most of the times but it also is the sensible one and is completely yours.