Change is something a lot of people tend to not accept as there are so many things that people psychologically and in turn energetically identify themselves with. These identities are the load that you have picked up and the responsible and sensible thing to be is to be light otherwise at one point you will be suffocated or crushed by the thing you thought will help you survive and be secure.

Its the law of the universe, that everything physical comes to an end the more you try to hold on or cling on to the more suffering you will experience. Clarity comes when you are not identified with anything. These identities are what your intellect circles. The feeling of getting stuck happens due to attachment which is caused due to identification with something or someone as it feeds one’s ego, when this happens people turn into wax strips and they stick to that thing and or person so when time comes for it to pass or in this case come off well, the pain can be excruciating.

If you are rigid you will resist the the flow and the more you resist the more you will suffer. If resilience becomes a living experience then things like grief and regret will turn redundant or even hilarious. This state of flux brings about a sense of freedom as if someone were to fix your life from the day you were born to the day you were to pass away, with no room for alteration, it would be the worst prison sentence ever.

The shells that one puts on to feel safe only become their limitations and inhibit actual growth from taking place. To grow one has to be vulnerable and expose oneself to life so that it can happen. You don’t have to make life happen you just have to let it happen. The truth is that everything in this existence is transitory and comes to an end one way or the other and once this understanding is present life turns from freaky to extremely thrilling.